Some teacher friends and I have been talking about guns for a long time. It’s an open question for us, one we’ve struggled with over the years.
I’m not a gun person. As a child I fired a hunting rifle a couple of times – meh… it’s not really my thing. I don’t pretend to understand some people’s love of guns but I try to separate my discomfort with guns from my relationships with the people who like them. We have a lot of avid hunters in this area and many of our children have very responsible, safe relationships with guns at home.
I started my teaching career in a very challenging school context where guns were a daily fear for staff and students. Because of that experience, and in an effort to implement school rules, I have often taken a very hard line when it comes to gun play in my classes.
And it comes up all the time.
“No guns at school.” – I say that almost as often as I say “walk”.
I understand why it’s a rule; we want children and adults to feel safe at school. It’s hard to feel safe when someone is pointing a gun (pretend or otherwise) at you.
But still they play with guns – they make them out of sticks, out of blocks, and out of snap-cubes… oh, the snap-cubes! We always wind up putting them away because they lead almost immediately to gun play.
So I understand why it’s “no guns at school” and generally I adhere to that maxim but then I find myself torn. Most of the time, I pay extra attention when children are very engaged in something and, let’s be honest, they’re VERY engaged by gun play. They are totally captivated, riveted, and engrossed. They’re not actually hurting each other but they are playing at hurting each other. Where is the line between acceptable play and unacceptable play? I have so many questions.
I don’t have the answers to any of those questions but I do have some student voices to add to the mix.
Some students are particularly savvy about rationalizing their gun play so that it will be acceptable to adults. This week alone I’ve been told that what looks like a gun is actually:
- a laser – “And it’s okay Madame, because the lasers on Star Wars don’t really hurt people.”
- a ketchup squirter
- and my personal favourite… a cupcake thrower (reminiscent of that moment in Ghostbusters when Dan Ackroyd conjures up the Stay Puft Marshmallow Man – “the most harmless thing”)
A colleague also has some great video of a child holding a snap-cube gun who, as the teacher approaches, flips it around and declares with a smile: “Look Sir, it’s an L.” This one is particularly brilliant as it shows that the child knows that teachers are so fixated on literacy that making a letter might deflect any reprimand for what was clearly gun play.
These kids are aware that they’re transgressing school rules by playing gun games. They’ve even come up with alternate explanations to placate the adults. That’s some pretty sophisticated theory of mind going on.
So I’m left wondering: is there any place for this play in the classroom? Is there something to value here? The kids are obviously very engaged and that’s usually my bellwether for valuing. What do you do in your classroom when kids are engaged in gun play? I’d love to know!